Hi! My name is Emily and I’m a junior psychology major. I’m pretty interested in psycholinguistic stuff, but for all I know, I’ll be writing jingles for snack cracker companies in ten years. Lack of finely-tuned ambition and a history of setting perfectly good combinations of guitar chords to inane lyrics make this a plausible possibility. I really enjoy listening to music, fiddling around on a guitar once every few half moons, watching movies, and indulging a debilitating (in the best sense of the word) addiction to “The Office.” I should also probably mention I’m from Long Island, but who isn’t?
I’ve been fascinated by Facebook since I joined the summer before freshman year. Before that, I’d routinely thwarted invitations from peers to join social networks like Myspace, which I wrote off as an adolescent vehicle for self-aggrandizement. Facebook, however, seemed like a more benign way to keep in touch with friends from high school and plant new friendships in the fertile soil that is mutual access to each other’s favorite TV shows.
Since then, I’ve used Facebook fairly often as a means of combating boredom and conveniently conveying short notes to friends, via their “walls.” Though I usually use the wall application without a second thought to its implications, I’ve occasionally wondered what motivates me and others to post messages, which are supposedly directed toward a single person, in a place accessible to all of the recipient’s friends. The private message option is equally convenient (one extra click doesn’t constitute a burden), yet most Facebook users trade privacy for publicity. Wall posts differ from private messages in that they are written for a large audience and their content reflects this difference.
I think some wall posts serve as marks of territory. Posting an inside joke says something like, “Hey, look, we hang out all the time,” even if that subtext wasn’t consciously intended by the sender. Other wall posts may stem from altruistic motives to decorate the recipient’s profile with a nice comment. Finally, I think some people use their wall as a place for brief messages with a distinct, task-oriented purpose, reserving private messages for more personal communication.
The Facebook wall is an asynchronous space, since recipients often take a few days to respond to messages. It differs from email in that the person being addressed is not the only one with access to the message (comments directed to one person aren’t usually sent to an entire listserve). It differs from discussion boards in that a post becomes part of a single person’s profile. Though discussions between two people other than the wall’s owner can occur on a wall, these exchanges seem to be rare. Posts from users on their own walls are perhaps even sparser, making this space comparable to an online guestbook. While the Facebook wall might have as much to do with utility as vanity, I think the preference for public messages warrants exploration.
Monday, August 27, 2007
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Hey Emily,
Like you, I resisted the Age of Myspace but I fell victim to Facebook as soon as I received my Cornell Net ID. At first, I was happy about my decision, but now that Facebook is adding more new applications such as video and the graffiti wall, I’m irritated when I look at my friends’ pages. Not only do the drawing boards take up a lot of space, but they also perpetuate the drama that most of us left behind in middle school. I agree with you that people post public messages to advertise their relationships with others. When people post an inside joke or a funny drawing to claim their territory, I’ve noticed that especially among younger facebook users that this can trigger a chain reaction and create a competitive environment. People feel the need to match their friends in the amount of drawings created or funny experiences posted. For example, when freshmen first get their facebook accounts, they randomly add friends that appear attractive or share common interests with them. As a result, other freshmen who ordinarily would have waited until orientation week to begin socializing do the same. They feel that if they don’t add random friends and advertise themselves on their classmates’ walls, they will somehow be missing out on a social experience. They make sure to comment on their dorm facebook group wall in order to make their presence known. However, I’m curious about how this online socializing translates in the real world. Many freshmen have awkward encounters with their facebook friends because the effect of meeting someone in person is very different from viewing selected pictures and wall posts online. How much power do public posts and drawings have in shaping peoples’ perceptions about one another?
To add to your idea about why people prefer public wall posts as opposed to private messages, I am also interested in what types of messages people choose to delete from their public wall. How would the facebook community react if the delete option was taken away? Your post sparked this train of thought for me, which unfortunately exceeded the word limit. Sorry about that!
Hey Emily,
I too have fallen into the endless time trap called Facebook. I cringe every time I think about how many hours of my life I’ve spent just floating around the website, just to “check up” on what all of my friends have been doing. It seems to me that when I began using about a year and a half ago, Facebook was pretty primitive, almost like an extension of one’s profile on instant messenger, with several bonus features such as being able to post pictures, and leave messages. However, with time it seems as though Facebook has shifted it’s purpose, allowing people to download hundreds of applications. Maybe I’m too old for this stuff, but it seems as though a once useful site has moved further along and past its original purpose. I really liked your thoughts on why people use the wall on Facebook rather than a simple private message, it definitely seems that people want to be “seen” by others when they post on someone’s wall. Perhaps Facebook allows its users to feel popular by showing off their messages from others to the rest of the world.
Hi Emily,
I thought that your thoughts on how people write on walls to mark their “territories” were really interesting. A lot of people who have become obsessed with Facebook (sadly, this includes me too) are constantly screening through their walls to see who have written in them. While people may write on others’ walls as a way to mark their “territories,” I believe that the person receiving the wall messages can use the number of wall messages to judge how “popular” one may be. You are probably very well aware of the number on the top of everyone’s wall (that indicates how many people have written on it. With this number, people can subconsciously compare it with their friends to see how many messages they’ve gotten. Of course this is not a good indication or measure of one’s popularity, but this seems to be one of the easier ways to make a fast assumption. This also goes for the number of “friends” one may have. It seems unlikely that one is good friends with everyone they are “friends” with on Facebook. We are all probably guilty of adding and on the other end, accepting “friends” who we merely know. While Facebook shows self-descriptions and number of messages and friends we have, can it represent truly represent who we are in person? Most likely not.
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